Would you think your husband was rude if he did this to you?

Husband called me at 9pm and asked me to pick him up from soccer training now. As I'd only just walked in the door from work and said "yeah, in 10-20 mins" and told him after I pick him up, I have to deliver some urgent doents to a client who was going overseas, about half hour drive away. When I got to the soccer club, I waited in the car out the front, down the hill in the carpark (where I told him I would be waiting, and he knows I dont come up to the clubhouse on training nights), and Im waiting, waiting, waiting for 45 mins, all the other guys are coming out, n one stops n tells me "he's up at the clubhouse drinking beer". So I beeped the horn several times, waiting another 5 mins, and then left, drove 30 mins to deliver the clients docs, then got home at 11.30pm. Angry with my husband, I went to bed without talking to him. Next day, he's like "what?". So I told him bl**dy what, but he just doesnt get it. I think that what he did was rude & disrespectful. And now we arent speaking.